Abby DeBenedittis, Author at Boundless

Church-Avoiding Singles: It’s Time to Rally

Going to church by yourself can be exhausting and difficult, but it’s worth it.

Porn’s isolating emphasis on pleasing myself actually made me less myself.

May I be the first one to say that’s it’s OK to struggle with being single? Thankfully, God can handle our pain and frustration.

Six things that matter to men when romantically pursuing a woman.

It turns out that you can’t live however you want without paying the consequences.

As one who’s lived with low self-esteem, I know how uncomfortable, even torturous, it can be. But change is possible.

When things get rough and disorienting, the predictability of the past starts looking pretty good – like when the Hebrews longed for Egypt.

There was a time during my unmarried years when I was trying so hard to get dating right that I just ended up getting it weird.

Don’t believe the lie that your past disqualifies you from having God’s best for your future.

It’s not enough to sing songs about God’s love that produce warm feelings in our hearts. We need to remember the reality of Christ crucified.